Dennis Bender

Date of Death: May 13, 2021
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Vestal, NY 13850
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Vestal Hills Memorial Park Cemetery
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Dennis J. Bender, 64, of Apalachin, passed away on Thursday, May 13, 2021 surrounded by his loving family. Son of the late Francis and Teresa (May) Bender. Dennis is survived by his devoted wife Debra (Agle) Bender; Loving children Ashley and Brandon; Sisters, Teresa (Gary) Melvin of Hornell, Sue Martin of Webster, and Mary FayContinue Reading

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Sarah E Disbrow left a message on May 18, 2021:
To Debra and the entire family, my condolences to you at this incredibly difficult time. I am just one of the many you don't know that have shared the joy of having known Dennis. I rejoice in his life with you and send healing energies for navigating this time of transition for all.
Christine Shin left a message on May 17, 2021:
I am sorry to hear about your loss. Thinking of you and your family during this difficult time.
Sandra A Johnson left a message on May 16, 2021:
Prayers to Family and Friends of Dennis... 🙏✝️💒
Michele Sardella left a message on May 16, 2021:
Deb - I’m so very, very sorry of Dennis’s passing, my love, thoughts and prayers are with you and your family
Greg Zifchock left a message on May 15, 2021:
What we once enjoyed we can never lose. All that we love deeply becomes part of us. Debbie, Ashley, Brandon and the extended Bender Family, I wish to express my sympathy in your loss and know that my thoughts and prayers are with you. I could fill this page with all the wonderful times we shared. I just couldn’t do it justice, because we all know, no one embellishes a story better than Dennis. Godspeed my good friend
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Sherry (Scott) Nedrow left a message on May 15, 2021:
Deb and family, I am so sorry to hear of Dennis's passing. My heart and prayers go out to all of you.
Lauren Massey left a message on May 15, 2021:
My sincere sympathy to Dennis' family. May memories of special family moments help you through the difficult days ahead.
Ellen DeVaul left a message on May 15, 2021:
In memory of Dennis Bender, Ellen DeVaul lit a candle
Ellen DeVaul left a message on May 15, 2021:
Debbie, so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. May your fondest memories with Dennis give you comfort and peace. God bless.
Marge Boyer-Shincarick left a message on May 15, 2021:
Dear Debbie: Sorry for you & your family loss. Hopefully you remember me from NYSEG Hamburg office years ago. Truly sorry! Take care! I’m on Facebook too for contact or email. My husband passed also & I’m remarried.
Steve and Susan Adams left a message on May 15, 2021:
To Debbie, Ashley, Brandon and family. Our deepest condolences to you and the family. I worked with Dennis for 25 years and shared some great times with him (and Debbie) both at work and outside of work. Dennis always had a story to tell and loved to laugh. I found a picture of us playing golf together at Hiawatha in a 1999 tournament. In the picture is Brian Hawley, me, Tony Ricca and Dennis. Susan and I have many fond memories of gatherings after work with the NYSEG crew. We wish you peace in this difficult time. Take care, Steve and Susan
Bob Stiles left a message on May 15, 2021:
Debra, I was saddened to hear that Dennis had passed away, You and the rest of your family have Nancy’s and my deepest condolences. I enjoyed working with Dennis when we were in Gas Marketing. He always had a positive attitude and a smile. I respected his work ethic and I learned a lot from him. I know he will be deeply missed
Barry Hart left a message on May 15, 2021:
Debra, I'm sorry to hear of Dennis' passing. I worked closely with him on several projects. He made work fun and we shared interests in wine making and deer hunting.
Eileen Palmisano left a message on May 15, 2021:
Debbie, I am so sorry to hear that Dennis passed. I remember him always having a smile on his face,a good man. May he be at peace. My condolences to you and your family.
Russ and Renee Williams left a message on May 15, 2021:
We are so saddened to learn that Dennis lost his battle. He was always so upbeat and positive. Our hearts go out to you Deb and your family. May his memory be a blessing.
Melissa left a message on May 14, 2021:
In memory of Dennis Bender, Melissa lit a candle
Melissa Melvin left a message on May 14, 2021:
To all my family I am so sorry. Uncle Dennis was amazing and there are so many good memories. I am sorry I can not be there to say goodbye but like Grandpa would tell me "It's not goodbye it's see you later". Love you all. Rest easy now Uncle Dennis and know you meant the world to me.
Allen Memorial left a message:
Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.
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