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Jay Wilber

Date of Death: October 14, 2022
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Allen Memorial Home
511-513 East Main Street
Endicott, NY 13760
607-754-0110 | Map
Thursday 10/20, 2:00 pm - 4:00 pm
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Allen Memorial Home
511-513 East Main Street
Endicott, NY 13760
607-754-0110 | Map
Thursday 10/20, 4:00 pm
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Jay L. Wilber, age 62, passed away unexpectedly on October 14, 2022. He was predeceased by his father, Thomas Wilber, paternal grandparents, Donald and Josephine Wilber, maternal grandparents, William and Wilma Mackie, aunt and uncle, Sanford & Janet Tanenhaus, in laws, Bonnie and Gerald Dukerich. He is survived by his loving wife, Denise, and sonContinue Reading

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The Grabowski's - Paula, Kris, Nikki and Michelle left a message on October 19, 2022:
Dimetra Johnson left a message on October 24, 2022:
I met him just once and he kept me laughing the entire time. He was a very nice man. My condolences.
Joe Pharis left a message on October 20, 2022:
My condolences to the Wilbur family and and to all his close friends. I met Jay through the annual Moosehead Golf tournament held every Labor Day weekend since 1986. I was part of the Kyle Duncan UNC-G crew. Jay was a great guy who always enjoyed a good laugh. I will also remember him as a mother hen who would keep us all guys in line right when we were about to make bad decisions. Jay would always have everyone’s back, giving rides from the bar back to the house we were staying in. He’d go back and forth multiple times which he didn’t have to do. That’s the person I know. He will be missed. Rest in piece Jay!
Julie Rosenberg Steber left a message on October 20, 2022:
I have known Jay for most of my life. First as a M-E school friend to my sister and brother-in-law, and then as a colleague and a boss for many years. I am so very sorry for this unexpected and tragic loss. I wish I could be with you all today to say good-bye, but sadly I am unable. I am sending my love and sympathies to Denise, Jeremy and the entire Wilber family. May his memory be a blessing...
Kellie Allen left a message on October 20, 2022:
I am sorry very for the unexpected loss of Jay. My heart breaks for you Denise, Jeremy and your family. I pray that one day soon the many memories and laughs sooth your broken hearts. Kellie Allen
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Kellie Allen left a message on October 20, 2022:
I am sorry very for the unexpected loss of Jay. My heart breaks for you Denise, Jeremy and your family. I pray that one day soon the many memories and laughs sooth your broken hearts. Kellie Allen
Robert (Bob) Codispoti Sr - ME Class ‘78 left a message on October 19, 2022:
My Condolences too the Family and Sorry for your loss as words can’t express what I felt when I heard about this. Gosh I had just saw Jay a few weeks ago. You’ll definitely be remembered for making a difference in the community, and Yes what a great Soccer player and teammate. Rest In Peace #15
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Air Temp Staff company 2 left a message on October 19, 2022:
Wilber Family, I pray that you may find peace and know God's comfort and feel his gentle embrace through this most difficult time.
Basket of Memories was purchased for the family of Jay Wilber by Air Temp Staff company 2. Send Flowers
Air Temp staff company 2 left a message on October 19, 2022:
Wilber Family I pray that you may find peace and know God's comfort and feel his gentle embrace through this most difficult time.
A memorial tree was planted in memory of Jay Wilber . Plant a Tree
Jake Buckland and Chris Brown left a message on October 19, 2022:
We will miss Jay very much. With deepest sympathy,
Peaceful White Lilies Basket was purchased for the family of Jay Wilber by Jake Buckland and Chris Brown. Send Flowers
Broome County Probation left a message on October 19, 2022:
Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for your loss... Our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.
Beautiful in Blue was purchased for the family of Jay Wilber by Broome County Probation. Send Flowers
A tree was also planted in memory of Jay Wilber
Gina D’Amigo left a message on October 18, 2022:
Denise and Family- we are sending our sincere thoughts and prayers to all of you during this heartfelt time. Jay was a great friend and wonderful man to be around and will truly be missed. Our love to you. Pete, Gina, Jerry, and Mallory D’Amigo
John Nairn left a message on October 18, 2022:
So sorry to hear of the passing of "The Councillor " Jay. He was always someone who could take a joke as well as give it but always with a smile on his face. For thirty some years the gathering at the Moosehead every labor day weekend was always something to look forward to and Jay and his friendship was a big part of it. My thoughts are with his family a friends at this difficult time. John Nairn Toronto CA
Kelly Haidinger left a message on October 18, 2022:
Jay was one of the good guys, he will be missed by all that knew him. To his family and closest friends, I am so very sorry for your loss
Lauren Cohen left a message on October 18, 2022:
I’ve known Jay, as a fellow attorney, since he first Started in the public defenders office over 30 years ago. He was always pleasant and courteous to everyone he came across; the consummate gentleman. His smiling face will be missed throughout the courts and the community. May God grant his family Peace and comfort as they go through this difficult time
Lauren Cohen left a message on October 18, 2022:
I’ve known Jay, as a fellow attorney, since he first Started in the public defenders office over 30 years ago. He was always pleasant and courteous to everyone he came across; the consummate gentleman. His smiling face will be missed throughout the courts and the community. May God grant his family Peace and comfort as they go through this difficult time
Mel, Brett, Michelle, Jon, Lauren left a message on October 18, 2022:
May you be comforted by the outpouring of love surrounding you. Mel Norwood, Brett& Michelle Noonan, Jon & Lauren Rothermel
A New Sunrise Spray was purchased for the family of Jay Wilber by Mel, Brett, Michelle, Jon, Lauren. Send Flowers
Andrew (Andy) Lee - ME'78 left a message on October 18, 2022:
To Jay's family: I am very sorry for your loss. He was a good friend to so many, had a very generous heart, and will be missed.
Beautiful in Blue was purchased for the family of Jay Wilber by Andrew (Andy) Lee - ME'78. Send Flowers
Tres Davis left a message on October 18, 2022:
My thoughts and prayers with you and your family.
America the Beautiful was purchased for the family of Jay Wilber by Tres Davis. Send Flowers
Bob Rhodes left a message on October 18, 2022:
Denise, Jeremy and family, So sorry for your loss. Jay was a lifelong friend and I will miss him greatly. I'm so glad that I got to see him last December when I came to town. I will be unable to travel to the funeral but Jay will know that I'm there in spirit. I have so many great memories with Jay but all of us golfers in the class of '78 will never forget his battery operated blender at the reunion golf events. He was one of a kind. Bob
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
The Bushnell's left a message on October 18, 2022:
Denise and Family - we are so sorry for your loss - Jay Bird was a wonderful person. he will be greatly missed by all - way too soon but his memory will always live on..... Our deepest sympathies and thoughts are with you. The Bushnell's - Todd, Kathie, Katlin, Carrie & Kristine
Allen Memorial left a message:
Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.
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