Paul Bendert, a purple heart awardee of the Vietnam war, and a member and mentor of AA, died unexpectedly on March 11, 2021at his home in Endicott, NY. Paul is survived by his brother Thomas (Virginia), and Edward (Trish) Bendert. Also many nieces and nephews. He is predeceased by his parents Edward and Lena, hisContinue Reading
Paul Bendert, a purple heart awardee of the Vietnam war, and a member and mentor of AA, died unexpectedly on March 11, 2021at his home in Endicott, NY.
Paul is survived by his brother Thomas (Virginia), and Edward (Trish) Bendert. Also many nieces and nephews. He is predeceased by his parents Edward and Lena, his sister Theresa and his brother Joseph.
Paul was devoted to helping people who struggled with alcohol and drug addiction and was always there when someone needed help. He mentored many people during his lifetime and was sober for over 30 years. Paul was admired, respected and loved by his community and family. He will be deeply missed by his family, friends, and all who knew him.
A Funeral Mass will be celebrated Wednesday 10:30 am at Our Lady of Good Counsel Church, Endicott, (livestream https://youtu.be/Ey9CYpxCkB0), followed by burial in Calvary Cemetery, Johnson City. The family will receive friends at church Wednesday from 9:30 am until mass time at 10:30 am. Donations can be made to the food pantry at Our Lady of Council Church.
Douglas Van D'Elia
left a message on August 16, 2022:
I went to massage school with Paul. He was such a kind, fun person to be around. We spend many mornings over coffee together. He is missed. Van
Sonny Garner
left a message on March 16, 2021:
I met and served with Paul in Vietnam. His sarcasm sure helped create our bond. I saw Paul for the first time since then several years ago at a Vietnam reunion and it seemed like no time had passed since we were on that hill together. His personality had not changed from the first time I had met him and that is what made Paul such a special person. We have stayed in touch since and I was so saddened by his passing. He will be sorely missed by our whole group and never forgotten. Our sympathy and prayers are with his family. As he would sign his emails to me: Forever my dear friend. Rest in peace brother
Sonny (& Toiya) Garner
Elnora Webb
left a message on March 16, 2021:
“God himself will be with them. And he will wipe out every tear from their eyes
and death will be no more, neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore.
The former things has passed away.” (Revelation 21:3,4)
Michael Conard
left a message on March 15, 2021:
My condolence to the Family. My name is Mike Conard. Paul and I were on the same team #1 gun 4.2 motor in 69-70 on LZ Professional. I'm not sure if Paul had talked about how he received the Purple Heart. It was early morning on May 22. We were getting pounded by incoming rounds and a attemped ground attacked. Through the mayhem a rocket hit our hooth. By the grace of God and his Angels most of us received some wounds and unfortuately some 2 died. In the past 18 years we have holding a reunion and Paul had manage to attend a couple of them. We were planning another reunion in May which I was hopeful for Paul would be there in Pigeion Forge. As a good friend to Paul he will be missed. If any family member would like to talk to me my phone is 309 734 5332. I live in Monmouth, Il
Bob Milliken
left a message on March 15, 2021:
I remember Paul from Vietnam. I think we were over there pretty much the same time - late 1968 to late 1969. Don't know how old Paul was then, but I think we were all 18 to 22. Friendly, smiling guy. Very sharp mind. Kind of a joker who could dish it out as well as he took it. I was and am also a Friend of Bill - 33 years, one day at a time.
RIP brother Paul. Thank you for your service.
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Bob (Delores) Atkinson
left a message on March 14, 2021:
As fellow travelers on life’s uncharted course, Paul guided others with great care, humility, and compassion. He modeled the playbook and lifted up so many. I am grateful for the friendship we shared through the years. Sincere condolences to the family.
Karen Frigo
left a message on March 13, 2021:
Farewell, my friend, and thank you for so many wonderful memories. Our deepest condolences to the Bendert Family. Paul was so kind and we're so glad he lived such a wonderful life. RIP Paul.
Karen and Val Frigo
Bob watts
left a message on March 13, 2021:
Wow. What a surprise. Good friend for 60 years. Great sense of humor. Sandy and I were just talking about him a few days ago. Will be missed. Condolences.
Judy johnston
left a message on March 13, 2021:
My condolences to all family and friends for this great loss.
Brian Hart
left a message on March 13, 2021:
To the Bendert family. I always enjoyed any time spent with Paul. I’m very sorry.
Brian Hart
Charlie and Maria Maira
left a message on March 13, 2021:
Rest In Peace and God be with your family...
CMH
left a message on March 13, 2021:
Paul was a joy at meetings. I will miss him.
CMH
left a message on March 13, 2021:
In memory of Paul Bendert, CMH lit a candle
Mary Ellen Gilroy
left a message on March 13, 2021:
My condolences to the Bendert family.
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Douglas Van D'Elia
left a message on August 16, 2022:
I went to massage school with Paul. He was such a kind, fun person to be around. We spend many mornings over coffee together. He is missed. Van
Sonny Garner
left a message on March 16, 2021:
I met and served with Paul in Vietnam. His sarcasm sure helped create our bond. I saw Paul for the first time since then several years ago at a Vietnam reunion and it seemed like no time had passed since we were on that hill together. His personality had not changed from the first time I had met him and that is what made Paul such a special person. We have stayed in touch since and I was so saddened by his passing. He will be sorely missed by our whole group and never forgotten. Our sympathy and prayers are with his family. As he would sign his emails to me: Forever my dear friend. Rest in peace brother
Sonny (& Toiya) Garner
Elnora Webb
left a message on March 16, 2021:
“God himself will be with them. And he will wipe out every tear from their eyes
and death will be no more, neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore.
The former things has passed away.” (Revelation 21:3,4)
Michael Conard
left a message on March 15, 2021:
My condolence to the Family. My name is Mike Conard. Paul and I were on the same team #1 gun 4.2 motor in 69-70 on LZ Professional. I'm not sure if Paul had talked about how he received the Purple Heart. It was early morning on May 22. We were getting pounded by incoming rounds and a attemped ground attacked. Through the mayhem a rocket hit our hooth. By the grace of God and his Angels most of us received some wounds and unfortuately some 2 died. In the past 18 years we have holding a reunion and Paul had manage to attend a couple of them. We were planning another reunion in May which I was hopeful for Paul would be there in Pigeion Forge. As a good friend to Paul he will be missed. If any family member would like to talk to me my phone is 309 734 5332. I live in Monmouth, Il
Bob Milliken
left a message on March 15, 2021:
I remember Paul from Vietnam. I think we were over there pretty much the same time - late 1968 to late 1969. Don't know how old Paul was then, but I think we were all 18 to 22. Friendly, smiling guy. Very sharp mind. Kind of a joker who could dish it out as well as he took it. I was and am also a Friend of Bill - 33 years, one day at a time.
RIP brother Paul. Thank you for your service.
Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Bob (Delores) Atkinson
left a message on March 14, 2021:
As fellow travelers on life’s uncharted course, Paul guided others with great care, humility, and compassion. He modeled the playbook and lifted up so many. I am grateful for the friendship we shared through the years. Sincere condolences to the family.
Karen Frigo
left a message on March 13, 2021:
Farewell, my friend, and thank you for so many wonderful memories. Our deepest condolences to the Bendert Family. Paul was so kind and we're so glad he lived such a wonderful life. RIP Paul.
Karen and Val Frigo
Bob watts
left a message on March 13, 2021:
Wow. What a surprise. Good friend for 60 years. Great sense of humor. Sandy and I were just talking about him a few days ago. Will be missed. Condolences.
Judy johnston
left a message on March 13, 2021:
My condolences to all family and friends for this great loss.
Brian Hart
left a message on March 13, 2021:
To the Bendert family. I always enjoyed any time spent with Paul. I’m very sorry.
Brian Hart
Charlie and Maria Maira
left a message on March 13, 2021:
Rest In Peace and God be with your family...
CMH
left a message on March 13, 2021:
Paul was a joy at meetings. I will miss him.
CMH
left a message on March 13, 2021:
In memory of Paul Bendert, CMH lit a candle
Mary Ellen Gilroy
left a message on March 13, 2021:
My condolences to the Bendert family.
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